A potential patient may ask and should ask: How do I know the Surgeon is a “Good Guy” a Good person? A surgeon who is on the side of humanity. A surgeon who will not harm my family or child. A surgeon who will not verbally state blatant lies so he can perform inhumane experimentations on patient’s bodies and emotions. Literally taking the patient out of life’s happiness and trust in the medical community. A medical monster.
God gives you one body, one set of eyes, one set of ears etc. so picking out a surgeon who is on the side of humanity should not be negotiable. YOUR side is paramount to your overall happiness and health.
Doctors:
First you want to believe in the goodness of people and I believe that many of those who attend medical school does so because he/she is really into helping humanity and the money he earns is merely a by-product of his medical practice. These doctors have patients! Nothing wrong with making good money as long as the medical professional’s chief concern is respect for the patient’s humanity.
There are some medical professionals/doctors who (unfortunately for their customers/”patients”) attended medical school for less than honorably reasons. He knows that he is intelligent enough to pass the grade and will eventually enter into a “medical” practice. Money, ego, position of power etc. to these types of individuals is the motivation and performing acts of humanity is secondary.
How to tell the difference:
Truthfulness is a character trait.
Niceness is a choice. Niceness is not a character trait.
Approximately 70 years ago so called “nice” (world famous) doctors were performing hideous experiments on people.
Because human nature has not changed since the beginning of mankind.
Some highly intelligent but LOW character types will become a medical doctor. This will happen.
Character is very difficult to change though a person can change behavior.
The low character person will even speak untruths (lie) to trick a person into surgery so he can line his pockets with silver and gold and feel superior. Don’t forget that the low character type may be very “nice” while not speaking the truth.
This low character type of person is merely a low character businessman with a doctor’s title.
The low character surgeons are tricky too as well as arrogant! This low character type believes that he is superior to all other people and doctors. The low character surgeon is a con and believes that his tricks are not known to the people because to him all other people are less intelligent and only his “superior” voice counts throughout the world. The low character surgeon may have psychological disturbances, power play perversions or may be a narcissist.
The low character type may even perform some good works for underprivileged (poor) people from poor countries BUT! This may be a front merely to give him the appearance of being a person of high character “helping humanity” with the overall goal to “look good” “superior” “look at me I am a good person”.
Note*: High character people who volunteer to truly help underprivileged people keep their good deeds secret.
The low character person BRAGS about such activities. Why? Ulterior motives? Money? Limelight? Narcissism?
Stay away from the braggart of good deeds.
To investigate surgeons use the techniques below:
The most valuable part of your body which many will agree is the EYES! Without your eyes you cannot drive a car but without your hearing you still can go hiking.
There are many different eye operations. Cataract, Lasik, etc.
Other surgeries are cosmetic.
Still other surgeries are intended to provide physical comfort: heart function, joint replacement etc. Check out your child’s doctor/pediatrician.
Obviously during an emergency where you are transported to a medical facility via ambulance you may have to trust that you will be treated professionally.
These are the steps.
Research the internet: the low character surgeon may have posted at one time maybe even 15 or 20 years ago his real reason that he went into the business. He will boast about how he planned to make money. I noticed that some surgeons removed their postings on how they planned to rake in the money by performing surgery. But with diligence and computer savvy I am sure that these postings can still be found. Character does not change so the low character surgeon chiefly interested in money in the past is still a “money man” but only older.
“Doctors” Website: Does the “doctor” use clichés phrases? Cliché phrases is a low character snake oil salesman technique. For example: “I can give you the strength of Hercules”. If so stay away. The “doctor” will not post his lies, human experimentation or low character trickery he performed in the past. He will appear “nice” on his website. Through the years the “doctor” may learn how to be more oily/slicker with growing competition from competent medical professionals.
Rock Star Behavior: if the surgeon on his website gives the appearance that he is some kind of famous “rock star” or that he is more important than other surgeons than BEWARE. Narcissist behavior in a surgeon can be dangerous for you. BEWARE! The narcissist surgeon may believe that his lunch is more important than your health and life goals.
To note: there is nothing wrong with being a rock star. BUT! If you want to be in the company of a rock star than go to a concert hall. If you want to be operated on by a physician with high moral character than use the character test.
Patient testimony: beware of these on “Doctor’s” websites. Those customers “patients” are hand- picked by the surgeon. If you can speak to “patients” that the “doctor” wants to go away or disappear you may get a different opinion. Enough said.
Pioneer: Some “Doctors” were in business for years and will boast that they were the PIONEER. Pioneer does not mean that the person (the “pioneer”) puts humanity first and is one of the top surgeons. Pioneer could mean that the “doctor” lied to “patients” and experimented on the “patient’s” bodies to boost his future greatness and by adding to his number count. (Number of people he operated/experimented on). Pioneer could mean experimenter on you not him.
People express their humanity through their voice. When a surgeon ignores a patient’s voice he is essentially ignoring the patient’s humanity. I don’t care how superior a surgeon believes he is. When a “doctor” straight out lies to trick a person into surgery he is NOT A DOCTOR. A real doctor listens to a patient and gives truthful answers to questions so that the patient can make an informed decision.
Low character surgeons in the past straight out lied to people in their scramble to rake in the money knowing that in time the type of surgery the surgeon is performing will be approved in other countries. The low character surgeon after lying and experimenting on a patient may then ridicule the patient warning him to “learn to pay his bills” and that life is all about “bang for the bucks” and “you’ll be happy you can now save on solution”. Can you imagine the horror?
Instead of talking about your health (even though you paid the bill) the so called “doctor” is assuming (because this is the con artist surgeon’s mind set; which is “the money man’s” train of thought) that you are also only consumed with money over humanity. To the con artist surgeon it is obvious that because you did not attend medical school you will naturally will be negligent in paying bills. These low character “doctors” will utilize marketing techniques to prove that “bang for bucks” over humanity is the way to live. It is disgusting. Do not have your dreams, goals, humanity attacked by the low integrity surgeon.
Check court records:
Start with criminal court. Was the “Doctor” ever arrested? If so stay away. This can be found on the judicial websites.
Research civil court cases: did the “Doctor” ever testify in a civil case? Did the doctor commit perjury? Did the doctor decide to change testimony? This is important because for someone not to stand firm on his convictions has less than admirable traits. No conviction of ideals is a big sign of low integrity and a warning to stay away from that doctor’s medical facility. You want and you deserve a surgeon with good character traits to operate on your body. Character cannot be changed (or is very difficult to change) and honesty is a character trait. Remember the doctor who is untruthful because of: arrogance, power over people, money driven, the need to be on center stage, etc. is one of the “doctors” who should be avoided at all costs. The doctor who backpedals and changes his testimony because he realizes that his narcissism is no longer accepted even by his peers has no integrity. NO CONVICTION=NO INTEGRITY. The low character surgeon should be avoided.
Did the doctor admit to lying or in his snake oil salesman slickness state that he made a “mistake”? Lying is not a “mistake” it is a conscious decision to not be truthful.
The level of experience of the surgeon should be taken into account. The recent graduate from a medical school may not be expert in a particular procedure. BUT when a so called top expert/surgeon in a particular field of medicine testifies and then changes/recants his testimony has NO CONVICTION which equates to NO INTEGRITY
STAY AWAY!
Type in the internet search engine: “the doctor’s name and testimony” “the doctor’s name and Court case” etc. this may produce some eye opening results.
Court: How a person acts and reacts in COURT is REVEALING! People who served in the military sacrificed their life so that the court system can be honorable and clean. A person no matter what their chosen profession and this includes people who are intelligent enough to pass medical school should respect those who died to protect the dignity of the court system and society.
A person who is smart enough to pass the medical boards and uses the court system to showboat is thumbing his nose at the military personnel who sacrificed their lives to protect the integrity of the court system and society. Any person who uses the court system to showboat has a low character. STAY AWAY!
Too Many Details: the low character “surgeon” who “secretly” looks upon the humanity of military personnel as less worthy will use too many details to give the impression that he is in tune with the “professional warrior” the military soldier. Negative “secret” feelings and beliefs may surface by the surgeon by his stating the opposite of what he thinks.
The low character person who uses too many details to describe his relationship with military personnel may have selfish and may even have evil intent in store for you. STAY AWAY!
What should you say to this “doctor”-“YOU’RE FIRED”
I am “just one of you”: This technique is where the “doctor” may even undergo some sort of surgery himself. DO NOT fall for this trick! The best surgeons do not do this! (The con artist surgeon will go to the best surgeon for his surgery and ensure that his surgery is safe or is reversible.
Tip: Investigate the surgeon that the low character “doctor” went too. And have your surgery performed by the low character doctor’s surgeon. But stay away from the “I am just one of you doctor” if he falls short of the character tests.
Social Media Websites: The media sites is where a person can broadcast himself. Type in the surgeon’s name and view how many videos are of the surgeon. Great surgeons advertise by word of mouth. If the “surgeon” has more videos than the norm than he may be fishing for a person easily deceived (you). Customers not patients.
Lullaby Technique: In your research on the best surgeon you will view surgeon’s videos on the internet. The con/surgeon may use the “lullaby” technique. This is where your lullaby becomes watching the con artist surgeon’s numerous videos previous to your scheduled or planned surgery. The con artist surgeon plans to Lull you into trusting him because he appears “nice” on the numerous posted professionally made videos. The low character surgeon or con hopes that you will believe that he is a good person by your continuously observing his NICE manner in numerous upon numerous videos. His con is to Lull you into believing that you actually know him. So when you walk into his office you will see that it is the same “nice” person you observed on the internet video social websites numerous times.
The con artist plans to lull you into believing that he is a good person by numerous “nice:” videos of him on the social media website. DO NOT FALL FOR THIS TRICK! NICE DOES NOT MEAN GOOD!
Doctor’s Employment History: Was the “doctor” ever fired from a medical practice? If someone was fired then stay away from that person.
A surgeon who was fired should not be your problem nor should you subject yourself to such a person. The fired surgeon may give some lame excuse as to the reason he was fired. He may state it was professional jealously, politics etc. do your research. Most “doctors” are fired because the surgeon has a low character and other people in the medical profession are sick and tired of his lies, his lack of integrity and of his treating people as less than human. Nobody wants to be in the company of a person who believes that his goals/monetary greed supersedes people’s humanity. The arrogant low character surgeon with the doctor’s title is not to be tolerated. Protect your eyes, ears, body.
Note: the medical profession is one of those fields where doctors tend to protect each other. Doctors are not quick to fire another doctor, one of their own. However when a surgeon continues to demonstrate a lack of character and has an integrity so low that it shocks the conscious and basic human decency; a firing may be the only answer.
If a surgeon was fired it is usually because there is a severe problem. Narcissism which can lead towards: cruel experimentation on people’s bodies, disgusting dishonest tricks performed on unsuspecting patients, low character, low integrity, no conviction.
Once other surgeons determine that they want to stay away from a particular surgeon. You should take heed!
STAY AWAY FROM THE FIRED SURGEON!
Country: Research the Country where the surgeon is practicing medicine. Some countries are not like the United States. In some countries a “doctor” can straight out lie. The surgeon can experiment with people’s bodies and after the damage is done/surgery completed, the surgeon has the power to arrogantly and smugly state to the customer/patient that he is the DOCTOR and that lying is the industry standard in his country.
Caveat Emptor: In the United States if a surgeon tricks, lies, and then insults a patient there is some check and balance systems. In some other countries the overseeing medical board may state: next time do your research CAVEAT EMPTOR. Up here we don’t take any action against someone like that.
Hippocratic Oath: Swearing to Practice Medicine Honestly. This oath requires physicians to swear that he will uphold professional ethical standards.
You do not want to be in the position of expressing and clearly stating to a surgeon that a particular surgery will hurt you. The surgeon then states false facts in order to deviously trick you into surgery. After surgery the surgeon then with a smug smirk communicates that he lied to you/the patient. The con artist surgeon may thrive on the experiences of enjoying his dishonestly earned feeling of power exerted over a lied to and violated patient. The surgeon may then add insult to injury by belittling the patient. Disgusting nightmare for the lied to patient. Enjoyment for the low integrity but “powerful” surgeon.
Active listening: When confined in a medical facility and one of the staff confides in you that you really do not want a particular doctor to perform the operation on you or your family member. Why is the person warning you? TAKE HEED! Stay away.
Doctor’s Reactions: In my research I have discovered that the admirable and hard working surgeons appreciate this website. Honest people welcome check and balance systems, people’s thoughts, dreams and providing education. Some of my friends are doctors.
The low character con artist surgeons on the other hand do not enjoy feeling vulnerable and do not like potential patients learning how to detect deception and analyze character. The con’s inner feeling of superiority and “higher” intelligence may be challenged and revealed.
The CON may not get as many unsuspecting innocent patients in which to conduct “secret” or “deceptive” human experimentation.
Knowledge is Power.
Notes:
Nice verses Good!
When you research criminals: serial killers, sex offender’s etc. people will say that he (the criminal) was such a nice man. Sure the person was “nice” that is how he seduces people and is able to victimize human beings. Just because a person is nice does not mean he has good character traits.
Good Character traits are: Trustworthiness, Respect, Responsibility, Fairness, Caring, Citizenship, and Honesty. Do not be misled by a person façade of “niceness”. Go by the steps listed above before choosing a surgeon.
A “nice” man who gave false testimony in court may state: “I made a mistake”
A mistake is when you carry too many groceries and drop some apples. A person who made a conscious decision to lie has a low character. Stay away.
Beware that in other countries “doctors” can straight out lie and there is no recourse.
Do not allow a low character person to VIOLATE YOUR BODY! YOUR HUMANITY!
If someone fails the character/integrity test, though he was smart enough to pass the college tests and obtain a medical license, and though he may decide to be NICE
He is
NOT A DOCTOR