DO NOT ALLOW ANOTHER PERSON’S ACTIONS CAUSE YOU TO DO A WRONG ACTION.
Perform acts of goodness not badness no matter what any one person or group of people do.
TOUGHNESS: A really tough person is one who refuses to turn his back on his own humanity.
As he was meant to be!
The true tough person does not fall victim to PEER PRESSURE!
A true coward participates in peer pressure. Why be a coward?
ACTION!
Do you want to have an action/dynamic life?
If so
Then:
DO THE RIGHT THING EVEN IF YOU THINK THAT NOBODY IS LOOKING.
Some people live by the mistaken believe that by sneaking around performing selfish acts gives their life meaning. Some people use tricks and schemes in sick plots geared to make other people look badly. Those people would be happier once they decide to THINK OPPOSITE!
THE SECURE/HUMANITY PERSON DOES THE UNSELFISH! The humanity person performs the good deeds.
The humanity person may travel around the community performing acts of unselfishness. The humanity person may seek higher education in order to develop more skills in order to serve humanity. Etc you get the idea.
Believe this: if you decide to live a truly positive life (serving humanity) the following relationships will follow.
HUMANITY serving, psychologically stable and secure people will accept and love you.
Dysfunctional/selfish/lazy/shortcut seeking people will despise you. (Note* Dysfunctional people can change behavior and decide to live a life of humanity too).
DO NOT allow dysfunctional bullies to either, talk you, pressure you, or trick you into living a shallow selfish life.
Why the dysfunctional despises the stable? Because all people have the ability to self reflect on their activities, and people do self reflect. The stable person’s activities forces the dysfunctional person to come face to face with their weak character.
The stable like to bring all people, all humanity up to the highest level of life.
The dysfunctional like to bring people down. The dysfunctional consciously decides to perform acts of deviousness all the while stating after they get caught, “I made a mistake”.
A conscious act to hurt people or a person is not a mistake.
“A mistake is when you carry too many groceries and you drop some tomatoes”
REMEMBER: nobody is perfect though all people are driven towards perfection. If you do something that is less than human, less than perfect, then be honest, state your fault and move on. Do not let your not being perfect stop you from striving towards perfection. The truly successful business owners and top managers are in tune with their humanity and accept their human imperfections.
DECIDE TO BE TOUGH! Go out into the world and perform acts of goodness.